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Old 05-07-2006, 11:47 AM   #6 (permalink)
djsexyass
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Default Re: Does the marrige change? Better/Worse

This is a question we had ourselves!

Communication is key, along with taking it slow!

My honey and I had talked about every possible aspect, prior/during/post our first experience (girl/girl play). We later met a couple (full swap couple) and after meeting up and having a good time with them decided to swap. The experience was great! But for me (DJ-the female half) a few days after, I started feeling all sorts of things (insecurites, the image of Jimmy with this other woman, the "did we do the right thing" moral dilemas). We had to step out of the lifestyle, communicate, and be with one another. We since have decided that full swap isnt for us.

So take it slow. Enjoy the horniness it creates for the both of us. The both of you is whats important!!! If one of you isnt into it.....then dont do it!

Good luck, have fun!

DJ
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