The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Interested in having a woman join us, but don't want to see her with another man

shigrl269 · 05-05-2006, 06:42 AM

Hey Thor,
Thanks for the nice post. Lots to think about.
When people discuss the topic of swinging in a casual way it's always viewed as hot topic, sexy, simple. I think it is a complex lifestyle. There is a lot to think about and repercussions if you don't. Your idea about the open and detailed discussion of what I may like to get out of the experience as well as his will be a major factor as too weather or not we take this step now or possibly later. I personally don't think it is something I want to jump into feet first without looking!! I, too research EVERYTHING for all possible info in hope of making a well thought out decision!!!
I really appreciate the fact that you took the time to post some really helpful insight.
Hubby is a pilot and gone for the next week so I have some thinking time to use to think personally about how I feel. I will also have plenty of research time!!
He thinks it is great that I am talking with you all, he too has been on the site checking thins out.
Let us know how it goes with you and your girl, hopefully you will continue to grow as a couple. It's nice to hear the depth of your devotion to her!!! I hope you tell her that on a regular, it is always a great thing to hear!!!
Thanks, and good luck to you both, oh yeah....HAVE FUN!!!!!!

05-05-2006, 06:42 AM	#10 (permalink)
shigrl269 Active Member Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 15 Location: MA	Re: new and curious, with a few issues... Hey Thor, Thanks for the nice post. Lots to think about. When people discuss the topic of swinging in a casual way it's always viewed as hot topic, sexy, simple. I think it is a complex lifestyle. There is a lot to think about and repercussions if you don't. Your idea about the open and detailed discussion of what I may like to get out of the experience as well as his will be a major factor as too weather or not we take this step now or possibly later. I personally don't think it is something I want to jump into feet first without looking!! I, too research EVERYTHING for all possible info in hope of making a well thought out decision!!! I really appreciate the fact that you took the time to post some really helpful insight. Hubby is a pilot and gone for the next week so I have some thinking time to use to think personally about how I feel. I will also have plenty of research time!! He thinks it is great that I am talking with you all, he too has been on the site checking thins out. Let us know how it goes with you and your girl, hopefully you will continue to grow as a couple. It's nice to hear the depth of your devotion to her!!! I hope you tell her that on a regular, it is always a great thing to hear!!! Thanks, and good luck to you both, oh yeah....HAVE FUN!!!!!!