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Originally Posted by CindyB I suggest you make certain your wife is willing and then just let her set the pace. Never go any faster than the slowest person. |
Dito
Moreover, we all were beginers some time, we've been there, some way or another, what happens to you two is perfectly understandable.
Just ensure to be up front with your playmates about this. Let them choose to play with you, knowing in advance she may not jump in, and no one will be able to tell you're "takers but not givers".
Problems arouses when you're deceiving by hidding facts you know in advance, like the stage you're in and your peace. Just be honest about this, and this also will help you two, because you'd take off of your back a lot of pressure.