[runswthscissorz]

Hi everybody. We are brand new to the lifestyle and went to our first club this past weekend. Hooked up with a couple about an hour before closing. They were an attractive couple and really nice people. I had full swap with the woman, but Vicky wasn't quite ready to jump all the way in. Sorry to be explicit, but I have to describe the situation. Vicky and the other guy only engaged in soft stuff: making out, him playing with her boobs and sucking them, played with her puss. She was giving him a hand job. Vicky and the woman played a bit too, no oral. I felt bad afterwards though because I had full enjoyment and he was kind of left out. Although I have to say that he seemed very turned on and satisfied to see me with his woman. In fact when it came time for the act, he jumped for a condom quicker than I did and when she dried up a bit, had the lube before I could even turn around. When I was finished, he climbed on and finished up with his wife. Vicky wants to participate, but seems to have to go at her own pace now in the beginning. Do more experienced couples find this frustrating? Don't want to get the reputation of us taking but not giving. I'm just so new to this and don't know how many men are satisfied with that kind of situation. Thanks for any advice or input.

Arthur