[new2open]

i would not know what to call the relationship i have with my wife. the way that i have read the definition of "open" here would not fit in anyway but we do play separately, accualy this is a preference for us. we set up our on encounters but there is no cheating/lying involved. in fact she has gone to meet a girlfriend tonight. i have reciently learned new things about myself that i never would have if my wife and i only played together or she had to be the one to set the dates up. i take this fully as a learning experience and if it has had any affect on our relationship it has broght us together and opened new lines of communication