The Swingers Board - View Single Post - What intimate acts do you reserve just for you and your partner?

cj22s · 04-28-2006, 11:14 PM

condoms are a must; we are clean and hope to stay that way but mostly because i am not on the pill. (i know i should be if i plan on playing around but that is another thread) as for kissing i had no idea there were so many people out there who felt that way. i cant imagine having having sex with someone with out ever kissing them!
Sex is much more intimate act than kissing it involves your whole body and requires complete comfort with yourself your SO and you partners for the evening. With that much intimacy already out in the open how is something so small as a simple kiss too much? I' m not saying that your feelings are in any way wrong. I am just trying to understand the difference.

04-28-2006, 11:14 PM	#80 (permalink)
cj22s Here to Stay Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 42 Location: alexandria, VA Status: couple SLS Name:cj22s	Re: How intimate is too intimate? condoms are a must; we are clean and hope to stay that way but mostly because i am not on the pill. (i know i should be if i plan on playing around but that is another thread) as for kissing i had no idea there were so many people out there who felt that way. i cant imagine having having sex with someone with out ever kissing them! Sex is much more intimate act than kissing it involves your whole body and requires complete comfort with yourself your SO and you partners for the evening. With that much intimacy already out in the open how is something so small as a simple kiss too much? I' m not saying that your feelings are in any way wrong. I am just trying to understand the difference. __________________ We just want to have fun. C(her) & J(him)