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Originally Posted by inquisitivemale Also the people that insist that I weak. I am not. I could have got mad and took my ball home when I was not playing but I did want her to have some fun also. It was just the overall situation. |
With regards to some rather blunt and direct replies to your post...I had at first thought, "Add insult to injury?" But then I realized that they are trying to give you a wake up call, even if it is a slap upside the head.
What your wife allowed to happen is just not right. But the fact that you sat idly by while it happened only made it worse. Had I been in your situation, I would have stopped the action as soon as this guy's friends started making comments. That would have been the end. Even if it meant me pulling the guy off my wife, and throwing his ass out the door, along with his friends. Not an hour later, and definately not 20 minutes later after I had called for it to stop. I hate to say this, but in order to get respect, you have to respect yourself in the first place. That doesn't seem to have happened here.
But I really feel for you, because I can only imagine how incredibly shitty that whole experience must have been for you.
As far as this whole "monster-cock fuckathon" thing...so what if your wife likes big dicks...I bet you could find a guy that would respect BOTH of you, resulting in a pleasurable experience for all involved.
But first, you need to get things straight with your wife. A time out is in order, with some serious discussion on mutal respect and understanding. Not to mention addressing her obvious inability to have any type of empathy towards your plight. That's a HUGE red flag in a vanilla relationship, let alone one that involves bringing another person into your marital bed. (Mr.)