 Re: Help - do I tell him?
Edison here---Ya know, I'd just leave it be since you've told so many stories of your adventures. Even though it's not the same, a friend of mine, Ted, cheated wiht a one time, one night stand. He was away for months on duty, it was stupid and he asked me whether he should tell his wife. I explained that the only reason to do it was to make him feel better, because she certainly wouldnt be feeling great about it. Anyway, he decided not to compound one mistake with another and has a great marriage since his error. Now, Sam had a simialr event and told his wife. To this day he doesn;t go anywhere or spend a nickel without his wife's understanding. This was their agreement because he broke their trust and therefore everything in his life had to be in full disclosure......forever. Sometimes discretion is better than truth.
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