 Re: wife does not understand
Maybe I rote it down wrong. I was not mad at my wife until I found out she was still in touch with him. After the incident when we discussed it on the way home it was done and over with. Also I do not leave her alone for her protection. Now some men think I did not hvae a set(balls) but The sex was not what I was mad about. Not until everything else happened. Also when it finally came to light that he was single and the guys were all friends Thats is when I broke it up. As for the number I thought she threw it away when i mentioned it. There have been a few parties where she was the only one to play and I have not gotten mad. Also I think it was a misunderstanding on her part. What I wanted was her to understand how the overall situation looked like. I wanted her to see it from my point. The thing is that sometimes she just does not get it. Also I feel she should have known to not take the number and turn the guy away because if it was the other way around she would have expected me to throw the number away. I asked her "if I had been in contact with a woman I played with that she did not like without her knowlege would she be upset?" She said yes. It is just that even though she says this, she does not really get it because she was not in my position. That is all I wanted was for her to understand. Also the people that insist that I weak. I am not. I could have got mad and took my ball home when I was not playing but I did want her to have some fun also. It was just the overall situation. |