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Originally Posted by Lovinlife59912 Being a newbie at all of this, why would you play alone? What is your partner getting out of it? I can understand maybe one having sex while the other watches because they are getting the enjoyment of seeing the other pleased but just to go by yourself and have sex with someone seems different. Hopefully this doesn't sound judgemental I'm just curious.  |
There are times that it's just fun. When Mrs. WS and I play together allot of the time I find myself watching her get her groove on (which I love to do) and I find myself short-changing my partner. Playing alone, even in just seperate rooms, allows you to pay 100% attention to my partner.
What does me or Mrs. WS get out of it when either plays alone... satisfaction of the other having a great time without worrying about the other. Last weekend we were at a house party and Mrs. WS suggested I go play with a couple since this woman's fantasy was a MFM and she'd never had one. She also didn't feel much like playing that night. So she "loaned" me out for the occasion.
There have also been parties we've been to when the foursome thing just isn't going to happen but one o f Mrs. WS's favorite playmates is there, so I sit and socialize while they take some time together. It makes me feel good.
Mr. WS