The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Lied to him in the past, do I tell him the truth now?

surgingwaves · 04-26-2006, 08:41 PM

I am 62, my wife of 39 years and faithfull I may add. are now looking at getting into swinging…softly for now.
For what it’s worth from a newbi:
If my wife told me a little white lie, when we started this journey together, because she noticed the story excited me; and then as we grew together and nourished each other for all those years and then if we as a couple had matured enough in our dedication to each other that we could now include others…and if she at last lived out a fantasy that she had lived in her imagination while telling and whispering and feeding my sexual fetish all these years and she still worried about hurting me by letting me believe in a dream… I would stand in awe at her and wonder how a man could be so lucky as to find a woman like her.
You are a very rare and precious lady.

04-26-2006, 08:41 PM	#11 (permalink)
surgingwaves Registered User Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 1 Location: Vancouver	Re: Help - do I tell him? I am 62, my wife of 39 years and faithfull I may add. are now looking at getting into swinging…softly for now. For what it’s worth from a newbi: If my wife told me a little white lie, when we started this journey together, because she noticed the story excited me; and then as we grew together and nourished each other for all those years and then if we as a couple had matured enough in our dedication to each other that we could now include others…and if she at last lived out a fantasy that she had lived in her imagination while telling and whispering and feeding my sexual fetish all these years and she still worried about hurting me by letting me believe in a dream… I would stand in awe at her and wonder how a man could be so lucky as to find a woman like her. You are a very rare and precious lady.