The Swingers Board - View Single Post - She brought up it and now she won't even talk about it

deejayc · 04-26-2006, 04:53 PM

Do I *NEED* it? No. Do I *WANT* it? Yes.
I know deep inside she wants at least to try with another man, she has recently admitted it. I would be OK if she said "no" to the whole and really meant it, but right now, after few short discussions I am sure she "doesn't want" just because of me hesitating the first time. All my attempts to open the subject were treated by her as if I wanted it just for me while not wanting her to do it.
So to go any further it has to be something coming from her again... not from me in any way... She is stubborn sometimes and anything coming from me will increase her "opposition", although, as I have said, I am 100% sure she wants it (I know her well enough, trust me on this one).
So how do I get her to come with the idea by herself?

04-26-2006, 04:53 PM	#4 (permalink)
deejayc Registered Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 5 Location: CT, USA	Re: First she wanted... now I want it Do I NEED it? No. Do I WANT it? Yes. I know deep inside she wants at least to try with another man, she has recently admitted it. I would be OK if she said "no" to the whole and really meant it, but right now, after few short discussions I am sure she "doesn't want" just because of me hesitating the first time. All my attempts to open the subject were treated by her as if I wanted it just for me while not wanting her to do it. So to go any further it has to be something coming from her again... not from me in any way... She is stubborn sometimes and anything coming from me will increase her "opposition", although, as I have said, I am 100% sure she wants it (I know her well enough, trust me on this one). So how do I get her to come with the idea by herself?