 Re: First she wanted... now I want it
Hi and welcome to the board!
I have a couple of observations....first your statement has a few "I think" or "I'm sure". Do you really know for a fact how your wife thinks? I would have a sit down and talk things out how you both feel. Almost everyone has a tendancy to assume things because they think they know their spouse so well. In reality sometimes fantasies are a person's most intimate secrets, and even just the simple act of sharing them can draw you closer than you could imagine.
Secondly, swinging is not always about screwing someone else. We know a few couples who don't swap at all...they will have sex in the same room as someone else. Other people we know only soft swap and don't have intercourse with anyone other than their spouse. There are many things to consider...
I would also recommend that you show her this site so that she can read for herself, it is something you can both look at together...but the bottom line is that if she (or you) don't want to pursue swinging you shouldn't.
Mrs
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