Do you NEED to swing? Would you be ok with it if she looked into it and decided that she REALLY does NOT want to?
If you don’t need to and can accept that she really may not want to, reassure her of that. Then see if she is willing to explore this site with you. If the answer is still “no”, you should probably respect her position and drop it. That may be the end of it, or she might approach you again down the road.
If she says she is interested in entertaining the idea…no commitment from either of you to actually do anything at this point…log in TOGETHER and check out the
FAQ and
search the archives for any specific questions you have.
Just remember, make your point be known and accept her feelings. This is one of those things that if you push too much (even mentioning it is too much after a few "no"s) it will have the opposite of your desired effect.