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Originally Posted by curiousagain I might add that just as habituation is often given as the reason some begin swinging, it is also the reason some give it up or slow it down. After a while it's kind of a been there done that, feeling. |
An EXCELLENT point! The first time at a club that I saw 2 women and one man exit a room, I just about creamed my undies! The fiftieth time I saw it, I probably yawned, and looked at my watch. It just wasn't that big a deal to me anymore.
Which leads me to thinking...it takes about 3-5 years for people to become "habituated" to each other, which is about how long many couples actively swing. I wonder if "habituation" with the lifestyle isn't as big an issue for swingers as it is for vanilla couples?
If it is, then what follows swinging as a way of rekindling interest in one's sex life?
Now I need to go back and read all the posts where "swinging" has led to an affair, and see how long they'd been in the lifestyle when it all happened...