The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Wife doesn't understand my boundary concerns

**good times** · 04-25-2006, 08:07 PM

Like LM said above, my wife and I agree that at any time either one of us can stop the play for any reason. If I said to my wife "that they were gonna have to finish it up " it would be finished in less than a minute. Not stopping when asked and that she is concealing the fact that she was talking to him without your knowledge are the two things in your situation that would bother me most. I would definitely cancel the next party plans and not make any more until both you and your wife are in agreement about what limits you both find acceptable.

04-25-2006, 08:07 PM	#12 (permalink)
good times Mod Squad Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 6,415 Location: Reno, Nevada Status: Married to Mrs Good Times SLS Name:randp	Re: wife does not understand Like LM said above, my wife and I agree that at any time either one of us can stop the play for any reason. If I said to my wife "that they were gonna have to finish it up " it would be finished in less than a minute. Not stopping when asked and that she is concealing the fact that she was talking to him without your knowledge are the two things in your situation that would bother me most. I would definitely cancel the next party plans and not make any more until both you and your wife are in agreement about what limits you both find acceptable. __________________ R (He is R, she is P)