 Re: wife does not understand
One of the most important requirements of swinging is that you and your partner are honest with each other about every aspect of swinging,...otherwise it becomes dishonesty, and in some cases, cheating. Try and talk about why she didn't tell you she was talking with this man without you knowing. I would calmly explain to her that had she enjoyed herself, she could have been honest about it, therefore ensuring more meetings with this man. For some reason, she did not want you to know she enjoyed herself.
Also, (of course this is how me and the husband operate, everyone has their own rules and feelings) when we are swinging together, and I or he senses that the other is uncomfortable with the situation, or feels left out, we try to accomadate for the other. If that is how you both are, she should have respected the fact that you felt left out, and done something about it. I hope this helps a bit.
MRS |