 Re: wife does not understand
Timeout! Whoa! I am sure there are two sides to this story. However, your concerns alone are enough to warrant a serious conversation with your wife about your rules for group play. It is unacceptable for either one of you to do anything behind each other's back or be placed in an uncomfortable situation. Sit down with your wife and tell her that it's ok if she enjoyed the othe male, but it is not ok for her to lie to you and keep secrets from you and it is not ok for you to feel disrespected by anyone in the group. If these pirameters cannot be met, then you may want to consider not attending the next party. |