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Old 04-22-2006, 02:06 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Default Re: Curious question: percentage of open relationshis in swinging

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I wouldn't call ours an open relationship (we both always retain the power of veto over whatever we do) but both of us have played separately at times, always with couples (or parts of couples) we already know well and trust. By some people's defintion we might have an open relationship but it doesn't feel like that to us.
Being a newbie at all of this, why would you play alone? What is your partner getting out of it? I can understand maybe one having sex while the other watches because they are getting the enjoyment of seeing the other pleased but just to go by yourself and have sex with someone seems different. Hopefully this doesn't sound judgemental I'm just curious.
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