The Swingers Board - View Single Post - She has no interest in swinging, how do I change her mind?

angelrose85053 · 04-22-2006, 12:52 PM

I agree with NandTfromCA I was once the womann who didn't want to swing. I had before in the passed and had decided it was a phase that I was done with. For 2 years my husband begged me. We did go back to a threesome scenario here and there but I was only doing it for him. Finally he stopped bugging me about it and one day, it clicked! I realize this doesn't work for everyone and given my past experience with swinging before, it made me more accepting of it again. However, there is truth in the approach...Stop bugging and let it be her decision. She knows you want it and maybe someday she will feel like trying it with you.

04-22-2006, 12:52 PM	#3 (permalink)
angelrose85053 Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 36 Location: Phoenix, Arizona Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:aim4kev	Re: Hello all I agree with NandTfromCA I was once the womann who didn't want to swing. I had before in the passed and had decided it was a phase that I was done with. For 2 years my husband begged me. We did go back to a threesome scenario here and there but I was only doing it for him. Finally he stopped bugging me about it and one day, it clicked! I realize this doesn't work for everyone and given my past experience with swinging before, it made me more accepting of it again. However, there is truth in the approach...Stop bugging and let it be her decision. She knows you want it and maybe someday she will feel like trying it with you.