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***JustAskJulie*** · 04-19-2006, 10:41 PM

a gangbang was one of my early fantasies and one that I tried several times to fulfill. The first time I will be honest and say I did screen based on looks (and looks alone). Come on, if I'm not attracted to a guy (and if the first time I'm meeting them is the night of the gb the only measure of attractiveness I will have IS looks then I'm not going to be turned on by them). That first time I had 5 who were supposed to show and 1 showed up.

The one I finally managed to make happen I had 5 guys show up and all but 1 were guys I had previously met and gotten to know (and they me).

From everyone I've ever talked to what you described and what I experienced is the norm. The general stat is that for every guy you want to show at a GB, you need to invite at least 4 more (1 in 5 will show up).

I think a lot of comes from guys being more turned on by the fantasy of a gb than by the actual idea of it. When they really consider it what arrives in their mind is the idea that they not only have to be naked in a room full of guys but they have to perform as well.

Another issue is that the woman/couple planning the gangbang would be helped by setting it up with a couple of other women who will be there just to be "fluffers", get the guys hard and keep them hard until it's "their turn". In reality the girl being banged can only occupy so many guys at once, so if there are other girls to keep the others occupied that will help.

04-19-2006, 10:41 PM	#9 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,293 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	Re: Gangbang Dropouts Question a gangbang was one of my early fantasies and one that I tried several times to fulfill. The first time I will be honest and say I did screen based on looks (and looks alone). Come on, if I'm not attracted to a guy (and if the first time I'm meeting them is the night of the gb the only measure of attractiveness I will have IS looks then I'm not going to be turned on by them). That first time I had 5 who were supposed to show and 1 showed up. The one I finally managed to make happen I had 5 guys show up and all but 1 were guys I had previously met and gotten to know (and they me). From everyone I've ever talked to what you described and what I experienced is the norm. The general stat is that for every guy you want to show at a GB, you need to invite at least 4 more (1 in 5 will show up). I think a lot of comes from guys being more turned on by the fantasy of a gb than by the actual idea of it. When they really consider it what arrives in their mind is the idea that they not only have to be naked in a room full of guys but they have to perform as well. Another issue is that the woman/couple planning the gangbang would be helped by setting it up with a couple of other women who will be there just to be "fluffers", get the guys hard and keep them hard until it's "their turn". In reality the girl being banged can only occupy so many guys at once, so if there are other girls to keep the others occupied that will help.