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Originally Posted by JnCC When a guy feels like anybody could fuck a particular woman, or like everybody has fucked a particular woman, she loses whatever appeal she may have held for him in the first place. It doesn't matter what she looks like. It doesn't even matter if she's actually done it. The fact that she's so "cheap" or easily attainable tends to kill whatever desire we might have otherwise had for her. |
The male double-standard at work, eh?
The easily attainable is something we see with single guys sometimes. They want to meet Mrs. WS, but not with me. They want to feel like it's a conquest over the husband, kind of like "he's not doing it for her so she's seeing me. I'm the better man, the alpha-male" type of thing. It's all about stroking their ego, and obtaining the unobtainable is the ultimate male ego stroke. When hubby is there, there is no conquest, they're not the alpha-male, they're not "special" as you pointed out. Or at least that is the way they see it. In our eyes it's the other way around. They are special or they wouldn't be invited to be there with us.
Mr. WS