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Originally Posted by JaneAndJohnDoe The second reason is that a large number of the men who "apply for the position" get cold feet, and shy away from the fantasy becoming a reality. Or, they just get off on the idea of it, rather than the reality of it. |
Yup, that's it. A single guy friend of ours has been to several gang bangs and he has said, "to get 5 guys to show up, invite 50." Every one he's ever been a part of turned out exactly like one of the scenarios you've described above.
I think for 1) allot of these guys are married and looking for some side-nookie, but at the last moment can't get out of the house, and 2) many get cold feet. The idea of having sex with a woman is grand, but to do it after three other guys turns-out to be a turn-off because they don't want their dick being where another one has, they are feeling too much competition, or having sex while be watched by five others is just too much pressure. It's just too much for their ego/masculinity to handle. A case of the reality being more then they can handle.
Mr. WS