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JnCC · 04-19-2006, 02:45 PM

Third possible reason; "The more you charge, the more it's worth"

When a guy feels like anybody could fuck a particular woman, or like everybody has fucked a particular woman, she loses whatever appeal she may have held for him in the first place. It doesn't matter what she looks like. It doesn't even matter if she's actually done it. The fact that she's so "cheap" or easily attainable tends to kill whatever desire we might have otherwise had for her.

It's one of the reasons I don't pursue single women who are listed on "adult" websites.

It's also one of the reasons I wouldn't cross the street to join a gang-bang, even if Paris Hilton were the Guest-of-Honor.

At my high school reunion some years ago, I was in a room with 4-5 of the guys I used to run around with, and a woman who was known "back in the day" as being something of a "Football Team-follower." In high school, I desperately wanted to "do" this woman but never had the chance. Even in her late-30's, she wasn't bad looking. She was attending the reunion alone, having been recently-divorced.

As the evening wore on, she flirted with all of us as a group, and with each of us individually at some time or another. Then, around 1 in the morning, she laid down on the bed with her already-too-short skirt hiked up, and her legs slightly apart. I swear to God, if there was EVER a woman who was ready to "take on the room," it was her, right then and there.

Not one guy touched her all night long. (I think one guy went over and copped a feel, but that was about all) She finally got up around 2 or 3 and left the room, and wasn't seen again for the rest of the weekend.

I felt so badly for her. I thought what a terrible humiliation it must be for a woman to offer men sex without strings or committment, and have them "pass" on the offer.

(I learned recently that she had passed of ovarian cancer, and felt badly for her all over again)

The only explaination I can offer for the fact that not one of the 5 of us took her up on her offer is that it was just too easy. As men, we all like sex. But I think we all need to feel it comes after at least a little bit of effort.

Apparently, I'm not alone in my feelings.

04-19-2006, 02:45 PM	#3 (permalink)
JnCC Registered User Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 817 Location: Mulletsville, USA	Re: Gangbang Dropouts Question Third possible reason; "The more you charge, the more it's worth" When a guy feels like anybody could fuck a particular woman, or like everybody has fucked a particular woman, she loses whatever appeal she may have held for him in the first place. It doesn't matter what she looks like. It doesn't even matter if she's actually done it. The fact that she's so "cheap" or easily attainable tends to kill whatever desire we might have otherwise had for her. It's one of the reasons I don't pursue single women who are listed on "adult" websites. It's also one of the reasons I wouldn't cross the street to join a gang-bang, even if Paris Hilton were the Guest-of-Honor. At my high school reunion some years ago, I was in a room with 4-5 of the guys I used to run around with, and a woman who was known "back in the day" as being something of a "Football Team-follower." In high school, I desperately wanted to "do" this woman but never had the chance. Even in her late-30's, she wasn't bad looking. She was attending the reunion alone, having been recently-divorced. As the evening wore on, she flirted with all of us as a group, and with each of us individually at some time or another. Then, around 1 in the morning, she laid down on the bed with her already-too-short skirt hiked up, and her legs slightly apart. I swear to God, if there was EVER a woman who was ready to "take on the room," it was her, right then and there. Not one guy touched her all night long. (I think one guy went over and copped a feel, but that was about all) She finally got up around 2 or 3 and left the room, and wasn't seen again for the rest of the weekend. I felt so badly for her. I thought what a terrible humiliation it must be for a woman to offer men sex without strings or committment, and have them "pass" on the offer. (I learned recently that she had passed of ovarian cancer, and felt badly for her all over again) The only explaination I can offer for the fact that not one of the 5 of us took her up on her offer is that it was just too easy. As men, we all like sex. But I think we all need to feel it comes after at least a little bit of effort. Apparently, I'm not alone in my feelings.
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