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JaneAndJohnDoe · 04-19-2006, 12:35 PM

Hi guys,

I'm hoping you can help shed some light on a weird problem we've seen crop up on one of the adult personals boards we frequent.

OK, here's the situation...

We've seen a rash of posts lately. These posts are from women who want to organize a gang bang in their local area. It is either organized by the woman, or by her man who wants to screen the applicants.

Over and over again, the post is initiated, and a large number of guys will eagerly pop up and announce that they would love to be involved in said gang bang.

Ultimately, the thread dies off and no gang bang is ever actually organized.

Now, when this happens, I always assumed that the original organizer had backed out and changed their minds. But, as it turns out, this is actually not what seems to be happening.

I spoke with a guy who had actually attempted, on 4 separate occasions, to organize a gang bang fantasy for his own girfriend. His experience with this attempt really surprised me, and I was wondering if any of you could help me speculate as to why these experiences seem all too common.

Here's what happened with my friend...

After trying to organize gang bangs on 4 separate occasions, he has given up on the idea because none of them ever worked out in the end.

Each time, he and his girlfriend actively communicated with each and every interested person. Since neither he nor his girlfriend were "Ken seekers", they didn't discriminate based on age, looks, or weight issues. All they were looking for was a group of men who were respectful and considerate.

In the end, they communicated with at least 30 men in a 2 week period prior to the event. For each event, at least 15 stated they were going to be there. They were all given the date/time/location and the location was paid for out of the couple's pocket. Here were the stats on exactly what happened for each of the 4 events.

Event #1: One person showed up, then left within 10 minutes because "he was uncomfortable about the lady's man staying in the room"

Event #2: Two men showed up, had sex for 5 minutes, and immediately and abruptly left.

Event #3: No one showed up

Event #4: One guy showed up, and they had a great time.

I should add that the lady in this situation is absolutely drop-dead gorgeous. She's in her early 20's, and has a healthy and mature sexuality.

So, based on my friend's experience, I would say that there are two possible reasons organized gang bangs have trouble getting off the ground.

One is the organizer isn't serious, is just fishing for compliments, or just gets off on making men slather for his woman.

The second reason is that a large number of the men who "apply for the position" get cold feet, and shy away from the fantasy becoming a reality. Or, they just get off on the idea of it, rather than the reality of it.

What are your thoughts on this?

04-19-2006, 12:35 PM	#1 (permalink)
JaneAndJohnDoe Here to Stay Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 93 Location: Ottawa, ON, Canada Status: Couple	Gangbang Dropouts Question Hi guys, I'm hoping you can help shed some light on a weird problem we've seen crop up on one of the adult personals boards we frequent. OK, here's the situation... We've seen a rash of posts lately. These posts are from women who want to organize a gang bang in their local area. It is either organized by the woman, or by her man who wants to screen the applicants. Over and over again, the post is initiated, and a large number of guys will eagerly pop up and announce that they would love to be involved in said gang bang. Ultimately, the thread dies off and no gang bang is ever actually organized. Now, when this happens, I always assumed that the original organizer had backed out and changed their minds. But, as it turns out, this is actually not what seems to be happening. I spoke with a guy who had actually attempted, on 4 separate occasions, to organize a gang bang fantasy for his own girfriend. His experience with this attempt really surprised me, and I was wondering if any of you could help me speculate as to why these experiences seem all too common. Here's what happened with my friend... After trying to organize gang bangs on 4 separate occasions, he has given up on the idea because none of them ever worked out in the end. Each time, he and his girlfriend actively communicated with each and every interested person. Since neither he nor his girlfriend were "Ken seekers", they didn't discriminate based on age, looks, or weight issues. All they were looking for was a group of men who were respectful and considerate. In the end, they communicated with at least 30 men in a 2 week period prior to the event. For each event, at least 15 stated they were going to be there. They were all given the date/time/location and the location was paid for out of the couple's pocket. Here were the stats on exactly what happened for each of the 4 events. Event #1: One person showed up, then left within 10 minutes because "he was uncomfortable about the lady's man staying in the room" Event #2: Two men showed up, had sex for 5 minutes, and immediately and abruptly left. Event #3: No one showed up Event #4: One guy showed up, and they had a great time. I should add that the lady in this situation is absolutely drop-dead gorgeous. She's in her early 20's, and has a healthy and mature sexuality. So, based on my friend's experience, I would say that there are two possible reasons organized gang bangs have trouble getting off the ground. One is the organizer isn't serious, is just fishing for compliments, or just gets off on making men slather for his woman. The second reason is that a large number of the men who "apply for the position" get cold feet, and shy away from the fantasy becoming a reality. Or, they just get off on the idea of it, rather than the reality of it. What are your thoughts on this?