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Originally Posted by Paphian The problem is that there are women out there who will happily claim to be "average" or "a few pounds over" or similar descriptions and who are seriously overweight. I'm not talking the typical results of bearing children and age here, but rather 100s of pounds over "HWP".
So, in my own case anyway, it's a sort of "flag" for potential respondents that I've got a kind of mental image in mind of the sort of partner I'm looking for, and that image has got some limits to it. Sort of a silent plea for anyone interested to make a personal reality check before responding.
All that said, and speaking only for myself, "nearly HWP" is no "rule". It's rarely in any on-line ad I've posted, a rule often bent, and has on a number of occasions been completely ignored, because I'm far more interested in the whole package than just the wrapping.  |
Guess we are guilty as well. HWP is in our ad too. Not looking for gym rats either. I've had to deal with a weight issue for years due to medications. We do workout and we both stay HWP. It's just a starting parameter nothing more. The whole package is the objective.