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Old 04-18-2006, 11:43 PM   #9 (permalink)
Paphian
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Default Re: Self-conscious

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Originally Posted by arcpl4mfm
Does anyone have any suggestions on how to stop being so self-conscious about weight issues? I still have a bit of a gut and new stretch marks due to a baby.
No real suggestions, but I can tell you from one guy's standpoint that it's something that most women worry far more about than necessary. We all have our preferences, obviously, but I expect there's far more men out there than you think where it's just not that big a deal.

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Originally Posted by arcpl4mfm
I love swinging but find myself holding back due to worrying so much about what people are thinking once they see me without my clothes.
Dunno about the rest of 'em, but I'd be thinking something along the lines of "WooHoo! This is gonna be sweet!"
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