 Re: advice for husband needed
You have to realize that there is a big difference between fantasy and reality - even, ultimately, for you...
She may completely get off on you covering her eyes and telling her she is with someone else - but the idea of actually being with someone else is too far out there... No different than Mrs Spoo getting off on the idea of our neighbors hearing us - when the actual idea of neighbors hearing us would be mortifying...
Swinging is a HUGE step for most people. Most women realize just how big - and it scares them. Most men don't realize it - so they run over the cliff stupidly...
Just discuss it with her - listen to her - respect her - and understand that if she says "no" to the whole idea, she may very well be sparing you a world of heartache.
Spoomonkey
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