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Old 04-16-2006, 11:28 AM   #7 (permalink)
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Default Re: Advice needed please.

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Originally Posted by intuition897
The best advice I could give you both is to start asking the question "Why?" a lot. Why doesn't she want the same for you, if she feels it's acceptable for herself? Why do you not want her to do it? What's the real reason behind it all? Why do you feel threatened by this?

You've cracked open Pandora's Box, and now the questions are out...and need to be answered.
Exactly. As you know Inuition, I'm a huge fan of Six Sigma. The method there is the 5-Whys. Repeatedly asking "why" peels away the layers of the symptoms that can lead to the root cause. It works in business and in life.
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