The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Wife wants to swing, I'm afraid if I don't let her she'll be unhappy

funlovinpair · 04-16-2006, 11:53 AM

Let me first echo the advice that you need to be honest. Do not tell her anything you don't truly mean. You can't tell her it's OK and then resent her for doing it later. Well, I guess you could, but that wouldn't be fair.

I think what's important is for you to figure out exactly how you feel about this whole situation, and what she hopes to accomplish from it. If the two of you can't figure it out on your own, you could always visit an open-minded therapist for insight.

Good luck,
Mrs. Fun

04-16-2006, 11:53 AM	#3 (permalink)
funlovinpair Registered Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 7 Location: California Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:funlovinpair	Re: Advice needed please. Let me first echo the advice that you need to be honest. Do not tell her anything you don't truly mean. You can't tell her it's OK and then resent her for doing it later. Well, I guess you could, but that wouldn't be fair. I think what's important is for you to figure out exactly how you feel about this whole situation, and what she hopes to accomplish from it. If the two of you can't figure it out on your own, you could always visit an open-minded therapist for insight. Good luck, Mrs. Fun