 Re: Advice needed please.
Hello there and Happy Easter to you too!
It sounds like you both have a very strong commitment and good communication for you to have gone thorugh many of the changes a young parent experiences, having children and being together for 10 years. So, I want to applaud you on that first.
I also would like to note that it took a lot of guts for her to express her feelings about what is going on inside of her and let me tell you, I have been that woman before and it was hard "coming out with it". With that in mind, you owe her the same respect, HONESTY. If you honestly feel against her proposal, than you need to tell her. Do NOT do something because you feel you might lose her. TALK TALK TALK about it. A solution that makes both of you happy, should present itself. But you must find it TOGETHER.
Aimee
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