[JohnUK]

Hi all, and Happy Easter!

My situation is probably a little different from most who post here.
My partner (she) finally has come clean and has admitted she wants to have sex with another guy she knows. We've been together ten years and have 3 young children together. She's never been with any one but me and was pregnant with our 1st child at 21. Recently she's turned 30 and this has created or brought to a head some issues for her. So suppose its a bit early for a mid life crisis but it feels a bit like one. She feels she's missed out on different things havings children so young. Recently she went on a few holidays with her friends and probably enjoyed the freedom which she's entitled to!

The thing is...while the idea arouses me, i'd honestly prefer her not to do it. I don't want to tell her this because I don't want her unfulfilled or unhappy. Also the feeling may stay or come back stronger if she doesn't act on it ever. When I talked about the risks to our relationship she said she wouldn't do it and that she'd have to "come to terms with it". I'm afraid she'll be unhappy, and maybe cheat on me eventually. Even if there was no emotional attactment which she says, I still don't want her to do it. She doesn't want me to be with anyone by the way.

How do we sort out this mess anyone?
Advice from women especially welcome!

Thanks
JOHN
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