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Originally Posted by funseeking How can I interest my wife in swinging .... |
I've been following all your posts and threads for a while now.
You're not asking your wife if she's interested in swinging, you're asking her to have sex with a married man who she is friends with, and who is supposedly in an unhappy marriage .... that's not swinging, that's CHEATING (yes he'd be the one cheating on HIS wife, but by being part of HIS cheating, she is a cheater as well). It is, as everyone here has already said over and over, VERY risky in so many ways.
So, have you ever asked your wife if she'd be interested in actually SWINGING??? ... within the generally accepted definition of swinging??? ... which, BTW, does not include having sex with one half of a married couple .... but which generally involves either going to a swingers' club to meet other swinger couples (with no pressure to play with others right away if she wants to take baby steps) OR, meeting (say, thru SLS) another couple who ARE swingers, but who would be interested in also starting slowly with you two (perhaps only playing with each other in the presence of the other couple at first - again, taking baby steps)??
If not, perhaps you should. That would be, in my mind, a good alternative to shutting up about it.
MrsOttawaCuple