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Originally Posted by funseeking You mean to tell me that neither one of you had to do anything or say anything to get the other one interested in swinging? |
I can't speak for anyone else but that is pretty much how it worked for us. The subject got brought up by events outside of our relationship, we discussed it, and decided it sounded like fun to both of us, so we decided to give it a try. That was a little over four years ago and we are still having fun.
In your case, if you have presented the idea to your wife and she isn't interested, then you are done, it isn't going to happen, in my opinion. Very few people are cut out to be swingers, it sounds to me like your wife is with the majority of the population and doesn't want to go there. So my advice is, if you value your marriage, leave it alone, forget it and move on to something else.