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Originally Posted by jennandjamesinm By continously posting the same question, just with different wording shows that you are trying to manipulate her into swinging. Here are the threads (that were merged into one) that has ALL of the advice that has been given thus far. Ladies can you help me get my wife to swing with a male friend?
The simple fact of the matter is that if you have brought it up, and she has said that she's not interested, then you need to let it die - just like you need to let these asinine threads that you are starting DIE. I know I am being harsh, but you have gotten good advice, now do yourself a favor and take it.
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I know I am being manipulative BUT I don't want to be. I just want my wife to be inetrested in swinging...is that so damn wrong?
You admitted "harshness" is not nice or warranted here. My manipulative ways were made clear to me by some of the posters on this board. I was not aware that I was manipulating until I heard what others had to say.
I am not posting the same question with different words this time. All I want to know is how to interest my wife WITHOUT being manipulative.
You mean to tell me that neither one of you had to do anything or say anything to get the other one interested in swinging?
I also posted a couple of real concerns that I would like more opinions on.
I guess there is nothing I can do now.
I feel stuck .