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Originally Posted by funseeking Now my questions
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No, I don't think so at all. And you can't control whether he'll be good for her in the sack or visa-versa. Only they will know if the chemistry to make good sex is there. And until they try, they'll never know. And so what if it isn't?
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Also, would sex with another man, a man that she sees as a good friend but one that thinks that she is "hot" be too risky for our relationship?
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The answer is "yes" and "no". I don't know your relationship. I can tell you from experience that Mrs. WS gets very friendly with the playmates she has chemistry with, almost polyamorous... well, more then almost.
So I know how it is when my wife has a crush on another guy. And its great to see her so enthused about it. But, I know she isn't going to leave me. I know I am her one and only true love and the rest are just that... crushes.
I don't know your wife, but if you and her think you can handle it then I say go for it. Just move ahead with caution because there may not be hurt feelings now, but you never know when the green-eyed monster will rear its ugly head.
Mr. WS