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Originally Posted by nwpacouple16404 It sounds like your wife is a very special and beautifull women. I would be so flattered to be the one person someone had had sex with. So she is coming out of her shell, that doesn't mean she needs to start swinging. Let her feel beautifull for who she is, not just sexually. You don't need to turn her into anything she is not and never has been, just because it turns YOU on. You are a very lucky man and I wouldn't screw with the situation any more than you have. |
I appreciate your bluntness...I like tactfull bluntness like this...and you have a point.
I am indeed very lucky.
But you misunderstand me a bit I think.....this is not about my fantasy, although I think most men have had such a fantasy and that includes me
This is about is about her. But as I have told her, SHE is in control,and she should only do what SHE wants to do and not what I or her male friend want her to do. I have made that very clear.
I just happen to think that it will benefit her and I have told her that. I guess I need to just shut up now as she already knows how I feel and think.
I just wanted some of other opinions from experienced people on this board and that's why I am here.
I also wonder if perhaps there is the chance that I am deceiving myself with the way I think.
A friend of mine, that does not know my wife, said that I am a very "different" fellow for not feeling "threatened" with the thought of my wife with another man but he respects me and this ideation.