 Re: dealing with anxiety?
I am a female. It would be hard to have that problem and be male, where it shows if you are turned on or not. What I think is going on is that because you couldn't get an erection that one time it is affecting every other time because you are now afraid of it happening, hence it happens. It is a real fear for you, and sometimes what we think/fear will happen does happen. I would really try to stop concentrating on getting hard and focasing all your attention during foreplay on how hard you are. Try to put the whole thing out of your mind, especially during anything sexual. You were always able to get it hard before, its all just based on your fear you aren't going to get hard. Avoid all thoughts of how hard u are and just enjoy sex, like u always have. Pretend it never happened, and I guess if that couple it happened with makes you feel uncomfortable, stop with them for awhile. Take care.
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