 Re: dealing with anxiety?
Hmmm, let's see. Your Swing Lifestyle post states an age around 28. Highly improbable, but possible that Pfizer could make a killing off of you with their "little blue pill". Nevertheless, it could be something a urologist might need to look at. If you haven't had a physical in awhile, now would be a good time for it.
With the big "3 -- 0" soon approaching, depending upon your environment, that might have something to do with it also. How's your job? You did mention major stress factors of moving the household and your wife's going away to a not so desirable location for work. There might be other stress factors not mentioned or even realized which might piggyback on these. If I was wagering, my money would probably be placed on stress or some nerve problem. You might want to look into Vitamin B complex supplements to help.
I'm a little past your situation and have had spotty performance for awhile. There are several major stress issues in my life right now including work. We just went away though this past weekend and despite having a stressful day involving the car breaking down over 600 miles from "home" and worrying about making several appointments, my performance that night with my wife was the best it's been in quite a while. (OK, maybe it was the sake and the soft Hampton Inn bed too. lol) So I'm still working on how to manage whatever psychological aspects are affecting my ability to consistently perform.
Nevertheless, odds are that this is a temporary situation and you'll be back in the "swing" (bad pun) of things when some of your personal conflicts blow over. Keep your spirits high until then.
Best of luck.
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