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**TNT** · 04-13-2006, 08:46 AM

I see a lot of " I want....I think..." here.

Your wife has said that she does not want to "experiment" . Just because you "think" it would be good for her and the thought excites you, does not mean that it would or that she should.

You have planted the seed in her mind, that's all you can do at this time. If she changes her mind she will let you know.

Swinging is not for everyone and it's definitely not necessary for any woman (or man) to have sex with someone other than their SO on their journey to "discovering themselves".

If your wife decides that this is something that she wants to try, it should be because she wants to, not because you want her to. It has to be something that you both agree on and both want to try.

Teresa

04-13-2006, 08:46 AM	#4 (permalink)
TNT Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 5,003 Location: baker, fl, usa Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:tblonde312	Re: Ladies can you help my wife? I see a lot of " I want....I think..." here. Your wife has said that she does not want to "experiment" . Just because you "think" it would be good for her and the thought excites you, does not mean that it would or that she should. You have planted the seed in her mind, that's all you can do at this time. If she changes her mind she will let you know. Swinging is not for everyone and it's definitely not necessary for any woman (or man) to have sex with someone other than their SO on their journey to "discovering themselves". If your wife decides that this is something that she wants to try, it should be because she wants to, not because you want her to. It has to be something that you both agree on and both want to try. Teresa
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