Thank you once again everyone, for your wonderful advice. Your help is very much appreciated. Looks like we need more hand-holding though head bang
The problem with us, is that we come from a very conservative society. So, besides crossing the uncharted waters of swinging (we are newbies), we have to muster enough courage to break societal taboos.
Here are some facts to help you help us: We are very much in love. The friendship with this other couple, we feel, progressed very much due to the strong undercurrents of physical attraction. There were probably some indications from them to take our relationship to a new level of intimacy, that we, unfortunately, failed to recognise and act upon in time. Guess, we are late bloomers
So then, our question is:
How should we test the waters, break the ice?
Please, please share specific ideas, experiences to help us further our interest.