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Originally Posted by LikeMinds321 What would you hope to find that you are not finding in the general swinging world, besides more people your age?
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Wow, what a question
In both the vanilla world and the swinging world the issues seem to be the same. The most discriminatory practices in the world relate to age
Look around you...entertainment, church, Sunday School, housing (yes they have housing for over 55 now where kids are not allowed)...the list goes on and on. So it is no suprise when we who are over some magical (it seems) age find ourselves being considered not as enticing.
Just this week a nice mid 40's mixed race couple had given me the thumbs up based on what I said in a few emails and looking at pics of me at my current age
It was when I told them I am 61 that they broke off all communication without any explanation at all
Now mind you, I am not complaining, just observing Surrender I would never want to have recreational sex with someone who might think they are doing me a favor.
On the other hand, if experience, patience and a genuine desire to help with hightened pleasure for a nice woman in an mfm situation is something they were looking for, they might have discovered that the wisdom of age does help quite a bit. It might just be that instead of us that are older being know as over the hill, those that are repulsed by age might find that on the other side of the mountain there is something really fantastic
