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JM153 · 04-07-2006, 10:05 AM

Dito to all the above. For me sometimes with a new partner, not only do I not ejaculate, but I have difficulty getting hard. Familiarity certainly helps. And both only get worse if I focus on them or look upon it as a problem. Also, if I use a performance enhancer - viagra type drug or a condom it is more difficult to ejaculate. In sum, I agree with the other advice - it is not you and let it go. Who knows he may ejaculate the next time or never - the important thing is that all are enjoying the experience for what it is.
JM

04-07-2006, 10:05 AM	#11 (permalink)
JM153 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 149 Location: South Central Texas Status: Couple	Re: He never has a "happy ending" when swinging! Dito to all the above. For me sometimes with a new partner, not only do I not ejaculate, but I have difficulty getting hard. Familiarity certainly helps. And both only get worse if I focus on them or look upon it as a problem. Also, if I use a performance enhancer - viagra type drug or a condom it is more difficult to ejaculate. In sum, I agree with the other advice - it is not you and let it go. Who knows he may ejaculate the next time or never - the important thing is that all are enjoying the experience for what it is. JM