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Originally Posted by swing_cpl2 He thinks he needs to act like a single man and sweet talk them and have a one night fling this way. |
Hi Swing cpl2,
I'm going to share a thought I had when I read this line. Its centered on the sweet talk part. He might be missing the flirting and ego boost once gets from flirting and all the nice things that are said in that process. Have you guys started swinging and you didn't / don't do a lot of flirting but just look for couples you can be sexual with? Maybe he is learning its not the extra sex that he was really looking for in getting into swinging? Maybe its all the flirting and impling that he's wanted leading up to sex that he is looking for.
If you feel this is it, I think you can provide that. Instead of looking at finding a couple to swing with like your buying a car. Where you looking at style, mantience record, MPG, etc. Talk it up like in a way that is flirt and an ego boost for him. Things like oh I bet she is going to want you. Your oral will sure get her off. I'll be so ready for you when we get together.
Well, I hope I communicated the idea that came to me. Could that be it?
dayhiker