[sexyshelby]

My boyfriend and I do play separately, but only due to convenience (we dont live near each other). However, we have discussed the issue, know our limits and rules and are both ok with this situation. It works for us, for now anyway.
So, there are some couples who do this. But, as you can see, many couples (probably most) only play together. If you are uncomfortable with the idea, then don't do it. It's that simple.

From here, I'll just Dito everyone else, rather than waste my type retyping everything that the experts have already said. Surrender

~SS