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Originally Posted by Florida*Girl I was wondering if someone out there might be able to give me a little advice. We are really new at this swinging thing and I'm not sure how much of the time this issue comes up. This is my question: how many of you males out there are not able to have an orgasm with your female swing partners?
Recently, we met a couple that we like a lot. We seem to enjoy each other's company and all get along - much better than any of the other couples we have swung with. We have played with them 5 times in the last 8 weeks since we met them, and he always has firm erections during sex or blow jobs. He seems to enjoy himself and he can go for a long time, but he never comes. He just gets worn out after awhile and we finally stop.
He's very sure that I have a good time, so I haven't had any problems and neither have my hubby and his wife. He says he doesn't have a problem with not coming, either but he doesnt know why it never happens. He has no problems at home with his wife, but has had this problem with all of his female swing partners. I am starting to feel somehow inferior because we just never have had the usual "happy ending" - even though he assures me that it's not my fault.
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And you say he enjoys it? you enjoy it? whats the problem?
Men dont need to ejaculate to to have an orgasm. indeed its an art that is sought after! Men enjoy sex with out ejaculating as well. Maybe he prefers to keep the ejaculation for his wife the woman he loves?
maybe thats a special thing for him! just chill out. if both enjoy so? let him have his own limits.