Its an interesting question I have dealt with from the other direction. I started in the lifestyle when I was still 20, and I might say I look a bit younger than that give or take my hair or tanning habits. The couple my ex-BF and I swapped with were in their late 40s/early 50s. I was actually more nervous about if I was going to be good enough to impress the wife than the husband. I seem to have faired better in their view than my BF did, and they are in turn how and why I got into the lifestyle. I don’t think they would have invited me to their own group if I hadn’t been mature enough. The word I’ve gotten from my hosts is that there were some that were a little unsure about what to make of me, but since getting to know me, they aren’t the least bit concerned now. I’ve been told I’m wiser than my years, and I like to think I handle myself maturely at gatherings. Since I’ve been with the group a younger couple in their mid/late 20s has started coming, and I’ve squared off with them on my own. My host couple and I still get together for our own activities as well.
In the end, I think its just really going with your gut and or getting to know folks first. The first club my hosts went with me to, I saw girls as young as I am who older couples seemed to avoid. But then these girls also were bouncing around like cheer leaders and little kids. Not really attractive to me or others.
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