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Originally Posted by EvilMJ I'm not saying that you cannot be commited in a relationship when you are not married. To me the difference is when you are not married it is a whole lot easier to break up with someone if you determine that you are not right for each other, then it is when you are married. |
That's what I meant. A lot cheaper too, especially if you're the primary wage-earner in the family.
Four years ain't exactly a "Spring Fling," and he
was the one who brought her into this. There's something missing here. I wonder what's
really going on with him?
I think some people are "situational swingers." That is, they
can be, in the right relationship. The rest of us either
are, or we
aren't. I was very fortunate to be married to a woman who was a situational swinger. It would be a bitch to learn that you were a "real" swinger, only to find out, after 4 years, that your partner wasn't.
I'd still like to hear his side of the story...the
real side. But since he's not sharing it with her, he probably isn't going to share it with us, either.