 Re: dealing with anxiety?
Dont let it get the best of you...
This very same thing happened to me on our first swap, and much like you, it took my libido and basically threw it in my face!!!
I felt like shit!!
I felt that way because we were very attracted to each other and I really wanted to be able to share what I have to offer with my new partner, I was blessed with being rather well endowed and my wife had expressed to her what she was about to experience with me during a few chats we had beforehand...
Well,,,imagine my horror when "little K" couldnt rise to the occasion!
The mind was ready and willing, but there was a mental block somewhere that wasnt going to allow this activity with a new partner.
For days afterwards that was all I could think about, I seriously thought something was very wrong with me as I now found that attaining an erection for my WIFE was near impossible,,,???
Our second date with this couple was much better, as I was able to maintain a semi-hard erection, and she again reassured me that she thoroughly enjoyed our union, and the forplay beforehand...(I felt better hearing that)
Long story short, after a week or so (and a visit to my uerologist) I was able to again regain my manhood and sucessfully make love to my wife as I normaly had in the past, it felt like a huge brick had been lifted off my shoulders....
NOW,,,after the visit to my eurologist, I have been prescribed "levitra" as a sort of "supplement" when "Little K" has other plans, and I am here to tell you, I wish I had done this sooner! I can now improve the already large erections I normally have to the point they almost hurt, not to mention my staying power has increased 10 fold!! It seems I can go for hours without orgasm, and just enjoy lovemaking that much longer, which is a BIG plus!!
Needless to say, levitra will be with me when we play again....thats a no-brainer...
Best of luck
And PLEASE dont let that little incident bother you....your normal!!! It happens!!
Take care!
~K~
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