 Re: Boy have I got problems
I'm sorry to haer you've come upon this problem. My initial answer to you would be the same as to a male who's gf didn't want to swing anymore. For the moment, stop. In any swinging relationsgip two of the most important guidelines to follow are:
1. progress at the comfort level of the least comfortable person only.
2. communicate, communicate, communicate.
As his comfort level has apparently lowered and you don't understand why or what has caused the change, I would venture that the communication between the two of you is lacking. Sit down and discuss the situation, what it is that has changed for him. Talk about it until you fully realize and understand the "why's" of the whole situation. Once the two of you understand fully what is happening to cause this change in your relationship, you will be able to make informed decisions to best suit you both.
In the past when things have bothered Princess Dawn with aspects of the lifestyle, we always found communication helped us solve all.
Best advise here? Talk.
Good luck.
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